The big idea: You don’t have to serve food to be exposed to food-related claims
Most food-related problems show up as:
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A guest gets sick and blames “the venue”
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Food is held too long (buffets are the usual culprit)
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Cross-contamination (especially allergens)
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Improper reheating or cooling
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Improper handwashing / glove misuse
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Food left out during photos, speeches, or delays
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“We’ll just bring in trays from home” situations
Your goal is simple: reduce the chances of unsafe food being served on your property and make responsibility clear (in writing).
Your Food Safety “Red Flag” Checklist (venue-friendly)
1) Who is preparing the food—and where?
Red flags
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Food prepared off-site in a home kitchen
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“Aunt Susan’s famous chicken salad” for 150 people
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Food transported without temperature control
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Vendor can’t clearly explain their process
What to require
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A licensed caterer (or at minimum, proof they’re permitted where required)
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Food prep in approved facilities
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Clear plan for transport and temperature control
2) Hot food + time = the most common failure
Most foodborne illness risk comes down to time/temperature abuse.
Venue rule of thumb: if the caterer can’t keep food hot/cold the right way, it shouldn’t be served.
Red flags
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Buffet is set “early” so it looks nice
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Food sits through a long ceremony delay
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Chafing dishes without enough fuel / lids
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Outdoor summer weddings with no cooling plan
What to look for
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Hot holding equipment (chafers, hot boxes, warming cabinets)
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Cold holding equipment (ice baths that actually surround product, coolers, refrigerated prep)
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A plan for delays (weather, speeches, photos)
3) Cross-contamination is sneaky
Cross-contamination doesn’t just happen in kitchens—it happens at events.
Red flags
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Same utensils used for multiple dishes
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Shared cutting boards/knives for raw and ready-to-eat food
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Guests self-serve from tight buffet lines with frequent utensil swapping
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No handwashing setup where food is being handled
Venue-friendly expectations
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Separate utensils per dish
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Dedicated allergen-safe prep and serving process
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Servers or attendants for buffets at higher-traffic events (especially for hors d’oeuvres)
4) Allergens: you don’t need a medical degree—just a system
Allergens are where lawsuits and serious incidents can happen, fast.
Red flags
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“We’ll just label stuff” but no ingredient knowledge
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Couple requests allergen accommodations and vendor brushes it off
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Dessert tables with mixed serving tools
Best practice
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Require caterer to provide allergen labels and ingredient awareness
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Have a simple “allergen plan”: who answers questions, where special meals are staged, how they’re delivered
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Encourage plated service for high-allergen groups when practical
5) Leftovers and “to-go boxes” are a problem waiting to happen
It’s common for couples to want leftover food packaged up. This gets risky quickly if food has been sitting out.
Red flags
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Guests boxing leftovers from a buffet
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Caterer leaves trays in a back room “for later”
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No clear cutoff time
Set the venue expectation
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Leftovers are handled by the caterer only
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Food that has been out past safe windows should not be redistributed
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Couple can take leftovers only if packaged by caterer using their procedures
6) Self-serve stations: charcuterie, grazing tables, and DIY bars
These are popular—and higher risk.
Red flags
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Grazing tables sitting out for hours
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Seafood/cream-based items on open displays
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DIY hot cocoa / coffee stations with shared utensils and spilled liquids
Smarter approach
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Limit time out
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Use attendants for high-touch stations
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Keep potentially hazardous foods in controlled service
7) “Kitchen access” and warming is where confusion happens
Venues often have a prep area or “warming kitchen.” That’s great—until everyone assumes the venue is responsible.
Red flags
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Multiple vendors using the same space with no supervision
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Extension cords everywhere
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No sanitation supplies or trash plan
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No rules on grease-producing cooking
What to clarify
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Whether cooking is permitted (especially anything producing grease-laden vapors)
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What appliances are allowed (and what is not)
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Who cleans and sanitizes
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Fire safety basics (extinguishers accessible, cords managed, no blocked exits)
The 10 questions every venue should ask the caterer
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Are you a licensed/insured caterer, and can you provide proof if needed?
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Where is the food prepared?
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How will hot foods be kept hot and cold foods kept cold during service?
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What is your plan if the timeline is delayed (weather, ceremony, photos)?
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Who is responsible for buffet monitoring and utensil management?
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What is your allergen process (prep + serving + labeling)?
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Do you provide handwashing or sanitation controls for staff on-site?
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How do you handle leftovers and guest “to-go” requests?
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What equipment are you bringing that uses heat/electricity?
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Who is responsible for cleanup, trash, and grease disposal?
The easiest way to reduce risk: put food safety expectations in writing
You don’t need a 12-page policy. You need clear expectations in your vendor guidelines and your couple-facing rules, like:
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Food must be provided by a licensed caterer (or approved vendor)
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Caterer is responsible for food handling, holding temperatures, and service monitoring
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Allergen accommodations must be managed by the caterer
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Leftovers must be packaged by the caterer—no guest self-boxing from buffets
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Any cooking/warming must comply with venue rules and fire safety requirements
This protects guests and reduces finger-pointing if something goes wrong.
A simple “venue win” to share with couples
When couples ask why you’re strict about caterers or buffet rules:
“It’s not about being picky—it’s about keeping your guests safe. Food safety problems ruin weddings, and a few simple standards prevent almost all of them.”










